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Tuesday, May 28, 2013

High school cheerleader/basketball star arrested for sexual relationship with team mate. Right or wrong? - Justin Ormsby

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Kaitlyn Hunt and her father

On February 16th of 2013 former Sebastian River High School (Sebastian, Fl) cheerleader and basketball star Kaitlyn Hunt was arrested and charged with "lewd and lascivious battery on a child 12 - 16 years of age."

The 18 year old high school senior who admittedly had a relationship with a then 14 year old female team mate that eventually became sexual, now faces up to 15 years in prison and "sexual offender" registration for life.

Adding fuel to the fire are the accusations that both the parents of the younger party and law enforcement officials are actively "cracking down" on this case due to Hunt's sexual orientation.

The nature of the case has proven to be highly controversial.  Many who believe this issue is discriminatory, including hactivist organization "Anonymous" have rallied to Hunt's aid.  Still others have claimed that regardless of sexual orientation, the age difference is unacceptable and Hunt should be tried and convicted regardless of her sexual preference.

So how does one decipher the morality of this circumstance?  To me, it seems pretty simple.  Let's consider the letter of the law versus the intent of the law.

The intent of the law is clear.  It's intended to keep adults from preying on underage children who may not yet have developed the capacity to exercise reason and good judgement successfully.  When thought of in that regard, it certainly seems a law for which we should be thankful.  

In March of 2013 former Tennessee Titans cheerleader Elizabeth Leigh Garner (42) was arrested for attempting to perform oral sex on a 12 year old boy one drunken evening.  In this example things seem more clear.  Garner was clearly an adult (42) the victim was 30 years her junior and in no way gave consent (legal or not) to the action.  If the allegations in this case are true, then I was suspect many (myself included) would agree that the perpetrator should suffer serious consequences for her actions.

Should Ms. Hunt be held equally accountable for her actions?  I think not.  Why?  Because age alone cannot be the only variable in these cases.  Hunt and her partner were in the same peer group.  They went to school together, played on the same basketball team, and should have, in every way, been expected to be close friends.  

In a high school setting 14 year old freshman and 18 year old seniors mix together daily as peers.  Not as adults and children.  Their friendships would not be chastised as would the friendship of a teacher and a student, or even a college student and a high school student.  They are, in most practical ways, in the same place in their lives.  They attend the same classes and the same social activities.  They play on the same sports teams.  They should be expected to bond and form friendships and on occasion those friendships will naturally blossom into something extra-platonic.  

Would it be less of a controversy if Kaitlyn was a 16 year old sophomore and her partner was a 14 year old freshman?  I think it might be.  In such a case, would it be reasonable to ask the elder girl to terminate the relationship immediately upon turning 18 or else face being branded a sexual predator for life?

To me this controversy boils down to one simple point.  Regardless of sexual orientation and regardless of your moral perspective on underage sex, these two individuals were peers.  The nature of their relationship was not one of an adult and a child.  Neither held a position of authority over the other.  Neither was in a position to manipulate, bribe, or extort the other.  They were friends.  Simply two class/team mates who bonded and formed a strong romantic relationship.  Expecting any high school student to suddenly develop the responsibilities of an adult and immediately discharge any relationships he or she might have on his or her 18th birthday is unreasonable. 

The intent of law is not to track down high school students on their 18th birthday day, arrest them for relationships they were already in, and ruin their lives by branding them sexual offenders.  The intent is to protect vulnerable children from predatory adults who, because of their stature, age, or position in life have the ability to take advantage of young and impressionable children. 




Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Teachers are babysitters! Fine! Pay them that way! - Justin Ormsby



Teachers:  Have you ever been derided by a parent or local citizen who said you were just an over priced baby sitter?  Well that sure is degrading!  Makes me feel like all that time I spent in college was wasted!  But wait...maybe those concerned parents are onto something.  Maybe you SHOULD pay me like a babysitter!

Let's see...the average salary for a baby sitter is between $4 and $18 an hour.  Let's just start at minimum wage, $7.75 and round up a quarter just because I'm a nice guy.  $8/hr.

Experienced adults are likely to make twice as much per hour ($10) as inexperienced teenagers ($5).  I've been doing this 8 years, have "babysat" thousands of children and have 2 degrees in "babysitting".  Just to be fair...let's add $2 an hour for experience.  $10 an hour.

Generally speaking you should expect to pay an additional $1 an hour per child if you expect me to sit more than 1.  I have about 22 kids per class...so let's add $20 and go ahead and divide that by 2, again, out of kindness.  $20/hour.

Now let's do a little math:

Pay: 20/hour.
Kids: 22
Hours: 6 (no pay for lunches and plan time of course)
Days: 182

20*6 =  120
120 * 182 = 21,840
21,840 * 22 =

$480,480 a year.  Yeah I'll take it!

Actual pay?

$38,00 a year or $1.56 per kid/day.  Heck of a deal!

Wondering where I got the pay numbers?

Babysitting Rates

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Monday, September 24, 2012

The Teacher Who Saved Me - Justin Ormsby


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For a time I strongly considered applying for the new Ed.L.D. program at the Harvard Graduate School of Education.  Inspired to change the world, I thought that this new and revolutionary degree program would provide both the education and the contacts I needed to make an impact.  But the Ed.L.D. program prepares the graduate for life in the non-profit and political world and while I'm fascinated by the idea of being the next Secretary of Education (and a good one I'd be thank you very much) I knew that above all else, I was a teacher and I needed to be changing lives from within a classroom.  Nevertheless, I considered the program so strongly that I completed most of the application.  What follows is my short essay on the following question: "What challenges or obstacles have you overcome to get where you are now?"  My response is quite personal, but one I don't mind sharing.  To this day I think I owe much to an amazing teacher who took the time to make sure I was going to make it.  If you have had a teacher like this in the past, take a moment to thank them.  If you are a teacher, then do your best to become like them. 
 
(Reviewed by: Justin Ormsby)  
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In my elementary years I was social, academically successful, and in love with learning.  By sixth grade I had started and edited the first middle school newspaper, had been selected as the captain of the school history team, had joined the math club, was a straight "A" student, and had standardized test scores in the upper 90th percentile in the state.  The summer before my seventh grade year a devastating family tragedy left me shaken and confused.  At the time I did not think it had affected me, but in hindsight, it completely turned my life around.   In seventh and eighth grade I failed English twice, had become socially withdrawn, and was combative with my teachers.  My interest in school disappeared, my grades plummeted, and my relationship with my mother, who had always been my greatest motivation, became strained. 

Thursday, August 9, 2012

What Every Child Deserves - Justin Ormsby


There are few things I like more than a good conversation about education.  More often than not I afterwards feel invigorated, charged, passionate and excited about education, but at times I feel drained, defeated, frustrated, hopeless and on occasion even angry. 

Recently my good friend and colleague Jonathan Hall called to vent his frustrations upon hearing a teacher proclaim that “deadbeat students are a waste of air.”  My first reaction was of sheer anger but the more profound and troublesome emotional response that followed was of frustration and hopelessness.  Every time I hear a statement like this, and certainly it has happened more than once, I’m reminded that there is a very real and dangerous attitude amongst some educators, albeit a minority, that represents a severe misunderstanding of the role of the teacher in the educational process.